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However, while I'm here I'll try to write something about better reading and more useful feedback.
In your writing group you can become a better reader and perceiver. No one is truly able to tell you that your perceptions are right or wrong. However, as a reader in a writing group you can be honest, can practice, and can learn.
Your job as a reader of the works of others in your writing group is, to tell the writer what you really see and how you really react to his writing(I could say "her"rather "his," for a writing group may include female writers or may be made up entirely of female writers, but I will not). You as a good reader will know that you can learn to see better and to experience more fully.
As you help the writer become a better writer, you become a better reader. As you become more of an expert you may begin to feel that you are always right. I my experience, that is never true. What seems true to me is that as you continue to practice you can become a more agile, flexible, refined reader, and a more honest one.
Learning to be a better reader is a process of character building. You may find yourself becoming both more sure of yourself and more humble.
I have a lot to learn about my writing. I can benefit from good feedback. You can offer me some in the "comments' section below.
by Richard Sheehan